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Reginald Clay's avatar

I struggled with this for a while. I rewrote SO MANY graduate school papers. It hasn't flared back up... yet

Something I feel helped me is doing things I know I can't and shouldn't be good at. Mixing it up. I got comfortable not expecting to 'knock it out of the park' at every at bat.

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Karin Crompton's avatar

Ohhh, that’s a good one. I do like the idea of regularly searching for ways to be a beginner again (though I sometimes fight against wanting to figure something out a little too quickly). It would be fun to find and sign up for something new ... you’ve got the wheels turning!

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Katherine Hutt's avatar

This came up in my "The Artist's Way" group this week... someone who loves candles decided to make them as a new hobby and it got me thinking how long it had been since I tried something new. Like years and years!

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Karin Crompton's avatar

That sounds fun! My mother used to do that years and years ago, wonder if she remembers how.

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Tree Langdon's avatar

As my college professor said - B's get degrees. It was his way of pointing out that I could manage to get my degree, work full time and take care of four kids without going completely insane. And he was right. B's do get degrees.

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Karin Crompton's avatar

How smart is that?! Sounds like an amazing professor. And damn, a B with all that going on ... that's like beyond an A+ for any mortal. I tip my hat to you!

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Tree Langdon's avatar

Thanks! I dropped a lot of other balls during those years but it was the better choice.

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